Never ask a woman what do you do in real-life situations. ask what you can buy from the products on the way home, in what position she would like to have sex today or "where to go in the movies or in a cafe."
but all the questions about "how we live" should be decided by a man. but it is his right and duty too. so if there are problems in the relationship because of the important issues - blame only themselves. A woman goes to a man. and support if it falls. you can not blame the woman is what it was originally not intended ... love your women! and they will love you.